Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

On the Verge of Divorce

Little things build intimacy

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn’t talk to each other.

Whose Name would you remember?


10 Things You Lose when you enter a Relationship

Posted by Alpha

Relationships aren’t all bad but 80% of them will never work out long term, and most of us will never have one that lasts forever. That doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t try for one but maybe you should run through this list if you’re thinking of committing. Because a lot goes up in smoke. Relationships only look great when you’re not in them.

10. Your female friends.

One of my friends recently got into a verbal tussle with his girlfriend over how often he texts his female friends. There’s no doubt that issues do occur in your friendships when you get a girlfriend — especially female friendships. You won’t be able to spend as much time with or text girls like you used to, because those friendships tend to get nudged down a few steps of the ladder. Why? Your girlfriend is in the No. 1 spot now. Any other women have to understand that she gets most of you, and they have to be satisfied with the leftovers. IF THAT.

Marriage Rite - Regular

Thali, Saree, Unity candle, etc
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RITE FOR CELEBRATING MARRIAGE


(After the bride is ushered into the front by her father & mother, both the bridegroom and the bride face the priest.)

Priest: N. and N., you have come together in this Church so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of the Church's minister and this community. The Lord abundantly blesses this love. He has given you life and faith and has already consecrated you and now he enriches and strengthens you by a special sacrament so that you may assume the duties of marriage in mutual and lasting fidelity. As a sign of that you will separately light a candle symbolizing that you come separately as individuals before the Lord. 

N. lights the right side candle and N. the left side candle.
Mass begins as usual 

MARRIAGE RITE -1

(No Thali, no saree. Vows said directly by the couple)
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RITE FOR CELEBRATING MARRIAGE
 
(After the bride is ushered into the front by her father & mother, both the bridegroom and the bride face the priest.)
Priest: N. and N., you have come together in this Church so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of the Church's minister and this community. The Lord abundantly blesses this love. He has given you life and faith and has already consecrated you and now he enriches and strengthens you by a special sacrament so that you may assume the duties of marriage in mutual and lasting fidelity. As a sign of that you will separately light a candle symbolizing that you come separately as individuals before the Lord. 
N. lights the right side candle and N. the left side candle.

10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex

1. Less Stress, Better Blood Pressure

Having sex could lower your stress and your blood pressure.
That finding comes from a Scottish study of 24 women and 22 men who kept records of their sexual activity. The researchers put them in stressful situations -- such as speaking in public and doing math out loud -- and checked their blood pressure.
People who'd had sex responded better to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behaviors or abstained.
Another study found that diastolic blood pressure (the bottom number of your blood pressure) tends to be lower in people who live together and have sex often.

Catholic Marriage Web site

Find Videos and other information from Catholic Marriage web site:

http://www.foryourmarriage.org/

Saying, I do: What happens at a Catholic Marriage? - Video:

http://www.foryourmarriage.org/saying-i-do-what-happens-at-a-catholic-wedding/